Monday, 18 January 2010

Life Is Good

We have finally managed to resurrect a nice old personal tradition... one that has (sort of) a long (not personal) history before it became almost extinct.

Back in those days long before radio, TV and computers were there to spend the evenings with, but spinning was still a necessity for every rural household, there was a German tradition called "Rockenstube" or "Spinnstube" (literally: "distaff parlour" or "spinning parlour"). These were more or less regular meetings where women (including young women, of course) would get together to spin and chat. As helpers with the chat and other amusements (yes, all kinds) the young men of the community would come along to chat, sing, and do whatever else young people of differing sex might do on an evening that might, in some cases, have drifted off more towards the "party and amusement" thing than to a productive evening of spinning.

As a result of these drifts, Rockenstuben were banned in some regions of Germany, and later, the need for such spinning get-togethers got smaller and smaller until they died out completely. But the basic fact that once was the reason for Rockenstuben still rings true: It is much more fun to do crafty chores in good company than on your own at home.

Which is why, years ago, we introduced the "Hutzenabend" into our lives - "Hutzenabend" being another word for "evening where you get together to do crafty things in company" but less spinning-centred. In our case, we fixed one evening per week and told our crafting friends that that would be the evening where we would sit down and work on our projects, and they were very welcome to join us. I always loved those get-togethers, but after they had run successfully for a while, less and less people came, and finally, we were mostly alone on those evenings - jobs took too much time, folks moved away, other things in life got into the way, and for a while, we had no Hutzenabend anymore. But now, in the new home, we have gone off to a very glorious start with the first one - and I sure hope that our reborn tradition will continue strong from now on!

3 comments:

Digger said...

I would LOVE to attend a Hutzenabend! Unfortunately, living circumstances as they are at the moment, I can't host one... but to be able to pull out my stitching AND socialize? Woo!

a stitch in time said...

Maybe you can find a stitching group somewhere in your region? Or start one that meets in a friendly pub or café (with good lighting)? Not as comfy (and maybe roomy) as staying at home and having lots of people come with their projects, but still a possibility to craft in nice company...

Digger said...

A nice idea, thanks! (I love pubs). I also just came across an article on bodkins by Beaudry and thought of you; it's "Bodkin Biographies" and a .pdf is here: http://bu.academia.edu/MaryBeaudry/Papers